Nikki Wilkes

Member since: 2nd Feb. 2008
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Running interiors website, Wales at Home, www.walesathome.co.uk keeps me busy...finding great interiors stories, new companies to populate our online interiors directory and lovely, lovely pictures for visitors to oogle over and get inspired by to create even lovelier homes! If you have a brand new product or want to recommend a designer / brand or range of products I would love to hear from you.

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Why do you love your home so much?
CALLING ALL INTERIORS ENTHUSIASTS!

We all know the common theories out there about the cultural significance of our homes in the past - from the proud Victorian parlours, filled to excess with home furnishings, to the housing boom after World War II when pre-fab houses and large developments sprung up all over Britain in response to the end of a troubled era and a new baby boom. But, we have moved on and now have a whole new set of cultural values to live our lives by.

So, why do we furnish our homes to excess? Why do we love a trip to Ikea on a rainy Saturday afternoon or why is bagging a real bargain the Habitat a great buzz? Why do we love interior design and decorating? Why can we not get enough of interiors magazines, interior design programmes and of course, websites? My PhD thesis, 'The Cultural Significance of Interior Design Magazines in the 21st Century' asks all of these questions and seeks to find the answers in our modern cultural values.

So tell me what your home means to you and why you enjoy interior decorating so much. How do you find your inspiration and what different does the style of your home make to your life?
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  lisa kate clayton
  
  lisa kate clayton
  
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  31st July 2009
  
  Love is to me a place to enjoy and fill with things i enjoy and aesthetically challenge and please -it's a way to express interest and style and interest-a refection of life and yes i believe it is about peoples own cultural siginificance and beliefs-really interesting and thought provocation-surely it's the greatest way to express believes/values and dreams?
  
  webbkat
  
  webbkat
  
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  25th June 2009
  
  I love interiors mainly because walking into a room can alter the way that you feel at a given time. It can make you happy, angry, relaxed, emotional amongst other feelings. To me, my home should be full of memories and items i have chosen because they are pretty or bright or interesting. Your house is an extension of one's self, yes, but not soley that. It is where we put our 'things' our 'stuff' and shouldn't be judged so heavly. Home definitely is where the heart is, but it is also our chance to just let go, from the pressures of perfection in daily life.
  
  JenniferScott
  
  JenniferScott
  
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  27th May 2009
  
  Because it is a place where I can be myself completely - kick back and relax. J
  
  ezrapru
  
  ezrapru
  
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  18th May 2009
  
  i know what you mean, but then that is why i have found mydeco useful, to plan things, ecven though it might not seem like you are doing things, you are half way to havig done something!
  Next project: the downstairs loo...
  
  AslamG
  
  AslamG
  
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  13th May 2009
  
  i spend a lot of time thinking about it but never actually get round to changing my home
  
  sarahlaurawoods
  
  sarahlaurawoods
  
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  13th May 2009
  
  because i spend so much time there!
  
  ezrapru
  
  ezrapru
  
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  21st April 2009
  
  i like the opportunity there is to express myself but also the way i can please my friends. i love having people over when they admire my design and style in the home, which they cant really do with my fashion sense!
  its great to make a warm, welcoming home where friends and family can relax and enjoy something that is all thanks to you.
  its about creating an atmosphere and being comfortable with your own style. ez
  
  SophieTrinder
  
  SophieTrinder
  
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  10th October 2008
  
  Home decorating is fun and a creative thing to do and something which you can completely have as your own creative style project. I have always found Designers Guild a great help in home styling with designs, products and inspiration. Check out their new Autumn collection at www.designersguild.com
  
  carraway
  
  carraway
  
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  9th June 2008
  
  I think your thesis sounds fascinating. For me a home is a place of inspiration, a birth place of ideas and creativity, a way to make us stand out of the crowd. So many of our buildings are the same, as ar our shopping centres.
  Each of us change at a different pace and have different experiences.I think our fascination with design and our interior space is an attempt just to be ourselves, which sometimes comes as a surprise.
  
  pia
  
  pia
  
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  25th May 2008
  
  your home is your castle, and you should live in a way that makes you happy and secure. Your home should be an extension of you rather than what you are told is "right". nothing more lovely then going into a home and the owner can tell you all about the art, the furniture and all the stories that come with them - that is great! Design is personal , no right or wrong.
  
  CHRISTINE CAMERON WILLIAMS
  
  CHRISTINE CAMERON WILLIAMS
  
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  24th March 2008
  
  Home making is the art of the individual. The bricks and mortar canvas is the cover. The reality is the life within the room sets.
  
  Hazel Whittaker
  
  Hazel Whittaker
  
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  29th February 2008
  
  Hi Nikki,
  Your last comment really made me think.It is interesting to see how we do look at other peoples home and interiors, it seems very much related to the whole contraversy and media spin surrounding the fashion industry and how we look at the beautiful glossy pics, clothes. For me those feelings of perfection/imperfection are very relative to the interiors I see whether in a magazine, TV programme, friends house. As said previously, and relevant to me the home is an extension of ones self, and can be a very personal space.
  
  Nikki Wilkes
  
  Nikki Wilkes
  
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  29th February 2008
  
  Hazel, I think you have hit the nail on the head in as much as 'home is where the heart is' and whether it actually matters what decoration we opt for or not is quite debatable. I suppose I am interested to get down to the nitty gritty of how we see our homes these days and how looking at other people's homes in magazines makes us feel - as you say, this is something you aspire to as is owning your own home. Thank you so much for your comments!
  
  Hazel Whittaker
  
  Hazel Whittaker
  
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  29th February 2008
  
  Your blog is very interesting,and for me something I can look forward too.For now I seem to have 3homes. Living in London I rent,however due to ridiculous landlord rules we are not aloud to put nothing on the walls,hang pictures,use blue tack etc,so the room is quite bland although I have my personal bits strewn across the floor in some organised fashion.When I'm in London this is home.However not for long as imagine 2 months down the line I will move again.I also have a home in Nottingham -where I studied and lived with my brother.As he has no clue of design we did this up together,and seems to be still an on going thing of over 2 years.As I have left,all motivation to continue decorating has diminished. Then there is 'home home',where I spent most of my growing up years from 10-18.My room has now been turned into the guest room,but recently decorated to the style of the house! For me this is perhaps still home,filled with familarity-I just look forward to having my own home one day
  
  lyroholisch
  
  lyroholisch
  
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  11th February 2008
  
  Interesting topic! I guess to feel truly at home you have to give the room a personal touch, something that relates to you, is an expression of yourself. A bit like clothes, they both have to fit regarding their size as well as their style. Everyone who has ever lived in a pre-furnished room will know that: first thing you usually do in a case like that is put some of your own pictures on the wall. Engaging in home decoration is both a creative and practical way of self-expression. That makes it a great hobby, maybe a balance to a dull or "restricted" (regarding self-expression and creativity) day job and to the 'outside world' with its roles and rules. Actually, there's one more aspect: Just as with clothes, a nice home can make a big impression on others. When hosting a get-together at your place, people will maybe pay you compliments on your style - which ultimately is compliment to your personality when you use decoration as a means of self-expression (and not just copy styles).
  
  Interiors Playboy
  
  Interiors Playboy
  
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  8th February 2008
  
  My home is my castle...and it's the only place on earth where I'm truly king. It's my dominion. And my retreat. And it's odd to think - or, at least, I think it's odd - that this piece of property is the only place on earth in which you exercise total control.
  
  KC16
  
  KC16
  
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  5th February 2008
  
  Home is where you can truly be yourself -- sprawled out on the sofa, in ratty-but-comfy clothes, eating ice, cream straight out of the tub, your hair unwashed -- perhaps I have revealed too much! Alternatively, home is where you entertain and impress and wow people with your impeccable-and-eclectic taste, your carefully chosen souveneirs, and your extravagant but oh-so-soft cashmere sofa throw -- again, not an exact replica of my life! But seriously, I think (as we all do) that home is an extension of both our best selves and our worst selves. Home is a place you can be proud of and use to show who you are to outsiders, and it's also a place that accepts you when you don't want to let anyone in. For me, it's an environment I want to be comfortable in no matter who's with me or how I'm feeling -- and all of the trinkets and furniture I choose to surround myself with reflects that desire...
  
  SteveReid
  
  SteveReid
  
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  3rd February 2008
  
  Your thesis sounds interesting. I'm just getting started on home design and blogs from people like you are why I'm using the site - to change the way I think and decorate my home. I used to lack imagination when I looked at my walls, but I'm beginning to realise its just about having confidence to do stuff, and express your personality in the decisions you make in your home. It's the classic situation when you're showing someone round your flat - like anything you wear or buy, you want to have pride in it. And that's home to me - a place you feel comfortable, but also a place that says who you are, and a place you're proud of.
  
  dangor
  
  dangor
  
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  3rd February 2008
  
  I like to spend money on my home because I like my surroundings reflect me as a person; in the same way that my friends reflect my personality. But I tend not to spend more than I need to on my home - comfort is more important than style.
  
  BarryBridges
  
  BarryBridges
  
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  3rd February 2008
  
  I think (speaking personally) that for many people, the home is like an exoskeleton on their life. It's where you live and love, make up, break up, relax, stress out, laugh and cry...and when you look at it like that, your house is more privy to your personal life than your best friend or partner is. If what clothes you wear define who you are and what people think of you when you go out, then your interiors say just as much about you when others come in to visit. So, in answer to your question, decorating your home is akin to wearing a pair of earrings, or a watch...or a new shirt or impulse-buy dress...it's how you project yourself to others and you want to make the best possible impression. But that's just my thoughts!

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