Love shack: 10 tips for seduction


Console table in hallway
Make your hallway entice with this chic console table (£1,940)
© A White Room

Strangely, leopard–print sheets and shag–pile carpets don't persuade everyone to part with their undergarments. Most of us are more responsive to subtlety. So, if you're hoping that dinner date might lead to breakfast, make your home irresistible and you will be too.

1. Lure them in...

A hallway gives a glimpse to your character so make sure it gives off the right message. Strategically place good books on the stairs (it says 'clever'), invitations on a console table (they say 'popular'), and framed photos of you looking gorgeous that your date can't fail to clock. But what happens when they get a little further into your lair?

  • 2. Use invisible powers

    Think fresh flowers or fragrant plants, room sprays and scented candles, such as these True Grace scented candles (£20) from Graham & Green. Smell memory is housed in your brain’s limbic system, which controls emotional and sexual responses, and research shows that memories evoked by smell are especially emotional. Set the right mood these fragrances: jasmine, tuberose, rose, and cinnamon.

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  • Stanton Leather 2 Seater Sofa

    3. Make it cosy

    'Studies show that Swedish women (rated the hottest by European men) make eye contact 95 per cent of the time, and stand six or seven inches closer during conversation than most other European women,' says body–language expert Peter Clayton. So, confine your date to an intimate space. A two–seater sofa, such as the Stanton leather one (£909.98) from Furniture 123 is perfect.

  • 50's-Style Mirrored Sideboard

    4. Show you're the fairest of them all

    Add some luxury and dynamism into your living room or bedroom with mirrors. This 1950s–style Mirrored Sideboard (£399) from Next is spot on the boudoir look and will help you show off your best angle to the max.

  • Bonsai & Peppercorns cushion - Spring Green/Grape

    5. Create a sensuous space

    Alert all his/her senses with romantic music and tactile, contrasting textures. This silk bonsai cushion (£49) from Clarissa Hulse looks great alongside rough pebbles and bare floorboards, with soft, thick rugs (the proverbial shag pile). Try the gorgeous sheepskin rug (from £49) from Funky Rugs.

  • Alessi La Rosa Fruit Holder / Bowl

    6. Fill your fruit bowl strategically

    Chuck out the browning bananas and instead pile bowls full of pomegranates on the table or sideboard – the fruits are a symbol for fertility. We love these La Rosa Fruit Bowls (£82) by Alessi at a white room. Or as an alternative to pomegranates, try figs – there's nothing more plump, soft and teeth-sinkingly juicy than a ripe fig.

  • Aurora Table Lamp

    7. Dim the lights

    Overhead lighting is far too harsh for intimate exchanges and not flattering to the complexion, so it has to be lamplight. This Aurora table lamp (£110) from The White Company is sensuously curvaceous and will cast a moody glow over your home. Install dimmer switches for extra impact.
  • Oval gloss coffee table white

    8. Pick the perfect dining location

    Try low-seat exotic pouffes and a simple table arranged in a location other than the dining room. Go for the ultra smooth Oval Gloss Coffee Table (£199) from Dwell to create intimacy between the two of you. Place your table near a window or by the fire,' says designer William Yeoward.

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  • LSA Siena Platter

    9. Engineer foreplay at dinner

    Dietician Nigel Denby's top foods for seduction include 'delicious asparagus tips; big, fat strawberries or soft raspberries; artichokes in delicious extra–virgin olive oil; or messy, juicy olives that you can feed each other.' Choose dishes you can share, in the form of antipasti, mezze or tapas and serve them on this ruby red Siena platter (£34) from Red Candy.
  • Antique French reproduction three section screen in gilt

    10. Prepare the boudoir

    Keep the door to the bedroom slightly (and suggestively) ajar. Something silky draped provocatively over the back of a chair or bed sets the tone. Make the bed inviting, says homes author Lizzie O'Prey: 'Try faux fur and cushions; lots of layers.' Disrobe behind this seductive French style screen (£755) from Juliettes Interiors, to further heighten expectations...

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karma kitten

Posted | 29th January 2009

Now I know where I have been going wrong!

Harry

Posted | 11th March 2008

Brilliant! - and from personal experience, lighting is the key.

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